I’m genderqueer/non-binary, but 99.99 percent of society won’t see that. I’m 5’2”, a good 40 lbs overweight in an hourglass distribution, and have obvious cleavage. When people look, they are going to see a woman. Understandable but FRUSTRATING.
I’m okay with looking like a woman, see. Oh, I certainly wish I were leaner and perhaps a bit taller, but more for the sake of androgyny than anything.
But, I will always appear to be a woman - fair enough, in the biological sense - but that means being judged by the thoughtless and ignorant who can’t see past societal judgement of genitals as a woman. I will continue to defy their expectations.
A month from now when someone asks “what do you do” I want to answer “I’m a pharm-tech student and I sell wine.” That’s WAY cooler than what I do now!